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NOT A FEMALE SUPREMACIST

3 min readJan 12, 2017
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I may be singular among femdommes, as I’m strongly NOT a female supremacist. I don’t see why people should be surprised when I come out as someone who doesn't believe the stupid non sense that genitalia alone makes people magically apt at ruling the world.

I agree with everyone else that women were a cut a very bad deal throughout history, at male hands, at biology’s hands, at reproduction’s whim. Of course I want a way out of that: first, politically, the West is pretty good at surpassing historical sexism in the major ways; secondly, I have seen so many stupid women that I don't think the way out of sexism is a new form of -ism. I think the future will bring more equality between the sexes. I also think that whoever thinks female supremacy can exist doesn’t have a clue about power, policy and politics. And lives in a fluffy delusion baked by feminine neuro-opiates.

Do the Twitter proponents of fem-supremacy actually have a plan? A definition? An understanding of power and a strategy to get it? Of course not. It’s genital utopia. I wouldn’t take this stand, but I’m a tad put off by having to explain that, just because I like to hit men con-sensually, I don’t let this SEXUAL ORIENTATION/PREFERENCE leak into my political views.

Fem-domming is a job, and a sexual taste. Before I was a Domme, I studied political science. Outside of sex work, I am a member of Labour. There is a women’s organization seeking to promote better gender policies, but you know what I haven't seen in my activism? A female supremacy group promoting that ovaries rule the world, with Louboutins and Gucci bags as symbolic heraldry.

Of course nobody bothered to take this fem-supremacy to its logical conclusion, it’s just fantasy speak; but some in the scene seem to base a lot of expectation on it. Not on my watch. I have come to pour some clarity. Female supremacy would be in-achievable because of human rights enshrined in law preventing any kind of massive discrimination again; undesirable because who on earth thinks a human is automatically better because they have ovaries? Look at Shillary, the war monger, killer of many females through war policies in the Middle East; as a lawyer, she formerly represented a violent paedo-rapist who she knew was guilty — got him jail free by smearing the little girl as somehow asking for it.

Of course you didn't take it so far; you were just speaking with your hormones; you have a fantasy, but it’s like communism, an impossibility; and of course nobody in the field of politics takes it seriously that females in latex corsets will rule the world, not even the hardcore feminists. But you expect me to adapt my speech and participate in the illogical fantasy because… because I like to hit you? Why, can’t you indulge in a little pervery without the delusion? It’s frankly, a sexual sadism issue and I think nothing of it. You can keep your little matriarchy fantasy in your little “wank bank”, of course; I also masturbate to the image of a trillion dollars in fresh banknotes on my private island. A little fantasy never hurt anybody. But please, don’t look away and tut in disappointment when you hear your mistress doesn’t believe in Santa Claus. Pardon, female supremacy.

Okay, I am a bit puzzled to come to the table of established femdom and see so much I don’t see a basis for. Perhaps it’s a sign of times a-changing: for long it seems like femdomming was just a male’s fantasy and you see mainstream articles in Elle or Cosmopolitan telling women how to dress like a dominatrix to please their man (?!?). But now, with so many female perverts around with an internet connection, you have a new generation of dommes who act on their own instincts, surely. And demystify the aura of femdom. Surely we don't need the mythology anymore, do we? “worship, female supremacy, goddess”… what gives. It’s a bit cliched. Maybe that’s why we’re not permeating the main stream. Maybe we need to have a reality check so reality treats us fair, as far as policies, so we don’t have to hide from our neighbors and fear reputations torn for a glimpse into our eroticism.

http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Female_supremacy#Pseudopsychological_bullshit

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DICTATORESS

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